Friday, July 31, 2009

Casting Producer looking for blended family

A Casting producer wants to do docu-series on a newly married blended family. She is interested in a family that has either just gotten married or will be getting married soon, and will be a blended family. For more information contact Jenny at sirenscasting@gmail.com

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Be a Writer for The Examiner

I wanted to send you this email to let you know I’m the Blended Family Examiner for Examiner.com. You can find my page at http://www.examiner.com/x-15117-Charlotte-Blended-Families-Examiner
I’d love to know what you think!

Examiner.com is ranked as one of the top 100 websites in the United States by trusted rating site Quantcast.com. They have thousands of informed local and national writers contributing hundreds of thousands of useful, informative, topic-specific articles every week.

They asked me to refer anyone I know who might be a good Examiner, and I thought about this group.

If you’d like to learn more, you can read up on Examiner.com
or if you’re ready, you can apply now. If you decide to apply, would you mind letting them know I (shirley Dudley) referred you?

Currently, Examiner.com is paying a $50 referral bonus for each person that I refer as long as their application is accepted – if you forget my ID number when applying, I won’t receive the credit for your referral. Keep in mind that this program is open to you too if you are accepted as an Examiner!

If you have any questions you’d like to ask me before you apply, please let me know.

Thanks for taking a look at my page, and, if you decide to apply, good luck!
Shirley Cress Dudley

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Dixie the Step Dog




My step kids's mom decided to give away one of their dogs (due to her new marriage.) It didn't seem fair for the kids to experience a divorce, two weddings and then the loss of a dog- all in a couple of years...so, I decided we would adopt their dog.

The first day, one of my step daughter's brought Dixie over for a visit. She was a little unsure of herself and stayed close to her little 14 year old master. The second visit- we moved her in: new bed, some toys, and a rawhide.

Did I mention we already have two dogs? (a Westie/Schauzer mix- that's 9 lbs soaking wet, and a 35lb Chow Chow/Golden Retriever that's 13 years old.) In other words- a very hyper tiny dog and an old, peaceful, slow, medium dog. Dixie is a full bred German Shepherd that weighs almost as much as me! She lives outside and her job is to guard the house.

Our first full day, we brought the two dogs outside to meet their new step sister. There was a little growling and some sniffing. The second day was a little less growling and a little more sniffing.

Gradually, over the first month, the three dogs have learned to accept each other into the pack. Wouldn't it be nice if our stepfamilies could accept each other, just as easily, in only a month? Well- it helps that the new dog is only an outside dog and the other two dogs are inside dogs. (I suppose if I made the stepkids sleep outside in the garage I wouldn't be the best stepmom!)

It does take time for everyone to figure out their place in a new stepfamily. Time to figure out that, although things have changed, everyone is still loved and still has an important place in the family.