Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Blended and Step Family Holiday Contest



This week only- send in your blended family holidays photos or step family holiday memories and you will be entered in our drawing.


Prizes include:  Holiday Survival Kit for Blended and Step Families, Blended Family Advice- the book, and 30 minute mini-session with Shirley Cress Dudley to answer your holiday question.


Share your wonderful blended family photos, or memories of great holiday times in your step family. You will encourage and strengthen another family- and you also might win a prize!


Go to The Blended and Step Family Resource Center for more information about the contest.
Good Luck!

Friday, November 19, 2010

Holidays Tensions Rising in The Blended Family or Step Family?

Is your blended family having trouble figuring out the Thanksgiving break?  Are you and your ex-spouse already arguing about the holidays?


The holidays are the toughest time of year for step families and blended families. Here are some tips that may help:
-stay rested and get enough sleep, don't over commit
-exercise and eat right
-start negotiating the holidays as early as possible with your ex-spouse
-maintain a positive attitude when talking with your ex-spouse.
-make sure you talk to your current spouse/mate before finalizing any holiday arrangements with your ex-spouse


If you need more help- check out The Blended and Step Family Resource Center, talk to a counselor, join a local support group.


Talk again soon,
Shirley 


Shirley Cress Dudley, MA LPC NCC
Director of The Blended and Step Family Resource Center